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Now that Fifty Shades of Grey is indeed popular, each of the media is talking about sex and sex toys. Are you curious about trying them but are too embarrassed? Are you currently unsure whether they are right for you as well as your relationship?

The following are some common misconceptions about sex toys:

Most people avoid sex toys

Wrong! Many respectable people use sex toys, including people most would consider perfectly normal. Using an adult toy doesn’t make you “odd” or doesn’t say anything negative about your relationship. It just can help you have fun more fun in the bedroom! You don’t need to share with friends and family, your boss or your mother that you use toys unless anyone unless you want to.

Sex toys are just for masturbation.

While adult toys are generally useful for masturbation, many couples appreciate using toys together, whether they are female or male or heterosexual or homosexual. Usually these couples are comfortable trying new things together, are open-minded, and trusting.

Your lover will feel inadequate if you start using a sex toy.

Are you nervous that if you bring an adult toy in to the bedroom, it will hurt your partner’s feelings? A grown-up toy can provide you an orgasm, but it can’t tell you how much they love you or rub your back. An object is not a substitute for a real person. If your lover has this fear, be sensitive and stroke his / her ego a little bit. As with most relationship issues, good communication is key.

Using sex toys could be physically dangerous.

NO WAY!

In fact, adult toys can have very positive effects on your sexual health.

For example, many doctors and therapists recommend adult toys to women who have trouble reaching orgasm; if you suffer from painful sex, vibrators can stimulate blood circulation; all women can benefit from kegel exercisers or kegel balls to tone the pelvic floor muscles; prostate massagers decrease the risk of prostate cancer, erectile dysfunction and frequent nighttime urination. Lastly, orgasms assist you to live longer, block pain and, some say, look younger. Who wouldn’t want that?

If you use adult toys too much, you will not have an orgasm with your partner.

If your partner is afraid you’ll replace her or him together with your favorite toy, promise him or her that you’ll continue to keep things different in the bed room: try different positions, new toys, light bondage and fantasy play.

If your relationship is healthy, there’s no reason why you should require a sex toy.

You are so lucky to have a healthy relationship. However, who wouldn’t desire to make their relationship even stronger and closer by sharing a fresh experience? If your companion is insistent about not attempting to use an adult toy to spice up your sex life, assure her or him that you don’t need a grown-up toy either, you’d just like to try one.

You or your partner is afraid of feeling pleasure

Pleasure is a birthright. Everyone deserves it and should have it. Own your sexuality and do what works for you. After all, orgasms make you healthier and happier.

Buying sex toys could be really embarrassing especially because they look gross and scary.

You are right. Now, thanks to the Internet, it is possible to shop in the comfortable surroundings of your own home without judgement. 情趣 Most adult toys make you feel uncomfortable because they are usually phallic or cheesey or are so loud that you think your kids or neighbor might hear what you are up to. Luxury sex toys are just the opposite. You will possibly not even realize that they are high quality adult toys since they look like art. They are now so discreet and quiet that no-one will know what you are up to.

These arguments might make sense and work for a lot of people but might not do the job. If that’s the case, here are 3 more reasons to test sex toys:

Pleasure = Sex Toys

Who is not just a fan of orgasms? You may be too tired or too busy to have sex, but there’s no denying that orgasms feel great. Adult toys will help you have significantly more orgasms. What’s wrong with that?

Sex Toys are Fun.

Whether you have been with your lover for some months or many years, things might be a little stale and you want to try something new. That’s OK – you are not alone! Adult toys can add excitement to the bed room and keep things from getting mundane. Using an adult toy together may bring you closer; sharing new experiences together can be very intimate.

ADULT TOYS Make Sex Better.

Did you know about 30% of women actually have an orgasm during sex? Most women need clitoral stimulation to achieve an orgasm. Meanwhile, many men have trouble sustaining their erections as long as they would like, whether because of age, medication or stress. That’s what adults toys are for!

If you are now prepared to start using adult toys, below are a few suggestions to begin with:

Start slow by getting started with something small. Start with a small toy and show your companion that the toy is about adding more pleasure and excitement to the bed room. For example, to be able to try a vibrator, focus on something that’s small and discreet, like a finger vibrator or vibrating egg. To be able to try light bondage, try a blindfold or holding your lover’s hands above their head during foreplay.

When you are ready, work your way around something bigger and bolder.

Above all else, remember that communication is the key to any healthy relationship. If you cannot share your feelings or desires, something is not right. Intimacy and fun will be the main goal. It is entirely up to you to choose whether that means with or without adult toys, but experimentation never hurt anyone!